I had a really strange dream the other night - just after we'd found my friend's flat broken into. That doesn't have anything to do with the dream, but explains why I was having such lucid dreams when I rarely remember them. It felt like a nightmare at the time, but I don't know why 'cause when I look back it wasn't at all scary.
Basically, I dreamt that my ex-fiance was getting married to a Polish girl. He was doing it just to annoy and upset me, and because she needed a work permit. He said he wouldn't do it if I could find something to show him I loved him before the ceremony. I found a postcard with some kind of animal on it (I can't remember what the animal was now, but think it might have been a walruss or seal) and that was the thing that would prove it, but I got to the church too late and he had married this other girl. I then went outside and cried to one of my friends, who happened to be there, but I remember I was upset and angry that he'd done it to upset me, rather than actually being upset that he was married to someone else. I woke up shaking and absolutely terrified!
Does anyone have any idea what the dream means?
Maybe you're worried he's geing to do something that will affect/upset you. The wedding is probably a metaphor.
Do you by any chance watch Arrested Development? Coz the main character in that was recently going to marry a girl so that she could stay in America ... Or maybe Desperate Housewives ... Carl married Susan so she could get health insurance.
Anyway, about the actual dream ... maybe, um, just maybe you're still not over him? Or it might be that you're just really angry with him, and he's just doing things to spite you. One question, do you still ever see him?